Is it time to cut him off?

[Trixi]

But I think it is a predictable cop-out for him to offer to IM you a little during the week as a way to keep the sex going.

BARF.

LOL.
My hope is that it's more than that.

We've been having a very nice time this weekend. He's staying an extra night (tonight) so that's a nice treat.

We start Salsa classes on Wednesday, so I am pretty stoked about that.

Something cool the intuitive said was that as we individually change it causes the other person to change and so H doesn't need to go out and date a whole bunch of other women to date someone different each week. H has definitely been "taking in" things this past few days.

H was criticizing my family and how he just didn't want to have to listen to my mother during the holidays. (He is absolutely correct- she drives me NUTS.) But I felt like I was being thrown out because my family can sometimes suck. I was pissed and finally said "You know, I could throw *your* family under the bus" and he said "oh, you don't have to. I am really disappointed and embarrassed at how petty and judgemental my parents are being. I don't really want to spend the holidays with them either." H said that the only person he really wanted to be with was me.

We went out to our bar on Friday and I told some of our friends that I was considering doing a grown-up pumpkin carving party. I hadn't really mentioned it to H before and he was VERY enthusiastic that we do it. Lots of peeps said that they wanted to come, so I am really looking forward to that.

And now, as he works on music lessons and looks over at me to see what I think, I have to shake my head and wonder "what in the world are we doing?"

I guess I'll just keep on keeping on, until early November when the 3 months is up.