Well, Saffie the day is fast approaching. D day is just two weeks away now. I have asked W to come home 3 times in the past seven months. Told her I did not think a divorce was the best thing for our family.
I am stuck in the middle. I want to ask her if she would be willing to delay the D for a few months so we can see if we can maybe save our marriage. But, the adive in the the DR book and on the forum is that I should not do that.
So I guess I just go to court, get divorced, and continue to move on with life. I really am not interested in dating or starting a new R. I still hope we can stope this. Should I call her and ask if she would be willing to slow down the proceedings for a few months?
