here's an update; thought we had a good counseling session last tue. I thought it was really good at the time, but we have had little progress this week. we have had less contact this week because she was busy with various events during the week and left for the weekend with friends. I took care of the kids this weekend and a lot during the week. we had planned on going out to dinner once a week, but it didn't work out this week. same problem we had in our marriage, we didn't put each other first. I have felt for a long time that her social calendar was much more important than us and it may be more important than her family. not sure how we are going to improve our R without much conversation or activity. she seems to be really withrawing and detaching. its making me very quiet around her. I am just going about my business around the house as best I can. she really confuses me. why is she here, why does she still wear WR, why is she primarily very nice to me, why does she continue to go to counseling...if shes "done"?
