Pushing ANYTHING is counterproductive -- you must be patient and let him come around on HIS terms and in HIS time. Again, don't push ANYTHING. Patience isn't a virtue in our situation -- it's an absolute necessity!

I know this statement is true and I have a saying for myself...it is : the only one I need to push is me! Sometimes I just forget to say it though!


M: 34
H: 32
M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs
Together: 8
Known him: 15 years
I walked away: April 1st
Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!

Working on me? : NOW!!!!