Pushing ANYTHING is counterproductive -- you must be patient and let him come around on HIS terms and in HIS time. Again, don't push ANYTHING. Patience isn't a virtue in our situation -- it's an absolute necessity!
I know this statement is true and I have a saying for myself...it is : the only one I need to push is me! Sometimes I just forget to say it though!
M: 34 H: 32 M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs Together: 8 Known him: 15 years I walked away: April 1st Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!