What I really want to push is the communication and what his issues are iwth me and also what my fears were and how I have and am dealing.
Pushing ANYTHING is counterproductive -- you must be patient and let him come around on HIS terms and in HIS time. Again, don't push ANYTHING. Patience isn't a virtue in our situation -- it's an absolute necessity!
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I have bought the book from the other forum and the pricipals are or seem to be almost exactly the same.
What's it called? I'm interested in reading it, now.