Gone: I have been in counselling for about a month and a half and yes she is great. She actually was aarons counsellor first and so has great perspective. He did alot of research as he wanted someone who had experienced similar situations herself.
Eventually I have asked and he said someday but not now to go to her together and she would like to see him there now but he has said that he is not ready. I think he believes I will push the marriage. What I really want to push is the communication and what his issues are iwth me and also what my fears were and how I have and am dealing.
As for the book...I have not bought it yet but I will. I have bought the book from the other forum and the pricipals are or seem to be almost exactly the same. I have read it several times and have actually loaned it to a friend right now. I wil get around to buying this one as well though.
I have days wehre I break down and this was definitely that day. If I had brought a date (friend) with me I dont think it would have been as hard for me. I thought that a bad idea but I am now second guessing that decision.
M: 34 H: 32 M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs Together: 8 Known him: 15 years I walked away: April 1st Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!
