em - Thanks for sharing that with me:) Your sitch and progress really is an inspiration because it sounds like we married the same people. I know that he's more inclined to stagnate if he isn't nudged in some way, but I can relate to it all needing to happen on his clock. Frustrating! I'm learning to nudge without it being too obvious. Since H still may be attached to OW and perhaps trying to determine how to end it, I think that suggestion of retro. may be premature. He's been very comfortable with counseling in the past so I think I'll work a little on that. Any additional info on dealing with the depressed, self depracating stuff that he seems to mire himself in.. let me know.
Me: 41 H: 50 M: 15 years S14-D12-D10 S: 05/07 Back home: 08/08 EA: 4 yrs
