I'm still doing it

[nephartiti]

Shell-shocked, thank you so much for the valuable info. I thoroughly explained the sitch to the Geek so I am fairly sure he was extensive enough. I have already changed all passwords on all accounts and have been changing them regularly. I also have established verbal codes at my bank and with the cell phone account.

Thanks for the feedback, Ladies. It is a difficult decision. I would rather let him be here than take the kids to who knows where. However, I am not sure I want him here alone. If I made it that difficult for him to see the kids, he may never come. They would just see it as some ploy for me to try and squeeze my way back into his life. They think really highly of themselves. I'm really getting to the point where I would rather not deal with him at all.

I checked the bank account. He was shopping at the grocery store in Riverside that we always went to. So he went to visit family. Could he possibly be introducing her to everyone already? Am I that disposable? That blows my mind. What is he going to tell them? He's been gone a month and a half and they are going to believe he just started seeing her? Maybe they don't care. Maybe they will just go with the flow to make him "happy". Maybe he's going to borrow money to get a lawyer. Wish I hadn't looked. I'm not going to react. I'm not going to react. This is speculation. Maybe he went by himself. I'm not going to react. I have no control over any of them. I'm not going to react.

I'm going to go have ice cream with S2. S2 had a rough day today. He's been very emotional and he fell off his skate board and scraped his nose. He asked to call H. I sent a TM, before I found out about bank charge, to ask when we can call b/c S2 gets upset when he doesn't answer. H hasn't responded. So much for "S2 can call me ANY time."

D will be 6 months old tomorrow. She is rolling around all over. She is really starting to engage with everyone. She thinks S2 is hilarious. She also has discovered the magic of sucking on her toes! LOL I'm sure I'm happier than H. Who needs him?