Tom-- I am going to pretend that you wrote that to me, too.
Morgan, I hope that you can release that pressure cooker...I know what it looks like when it explodes.
Try to just let it go. Will anything change if you file for D right now? If you were D'd tomorrow, would anything look different to you? I think we would still be stuck in the emotional no-man's land--having the piece of paper isn't going to make us detach any better.
Tom--How is it, exactly, that one "detaches," anyway? I can THINK about it, but I don't really FEEL it... Can we really control this feeling at all, or is it just a matter of time? What is the difference between detaching and giving up?
