So for the last 11 months we've been separated. I've been an active member of the Separated - Now What forum. In the span of 11 months we've gone from her covertly seeking a quick divorce to just wanting to be good parents together to hope we can be friends again to open to reconciliation. It took a good 8 months for that progression to happen.
Well over the summer it's been up and down and now we both seem to be on the same page and want to really work on being friends again then see where it leads from there. Me I hope a lot further, her she can't yet see that far in advance.
So I'd love to hear ideas and advice about being friends again. My initial thoughts are select time together just us at times and other times all of the family. Start with just enjoying a little time together and let that grow.
Thoughts?
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
