I'm still doing it

[theotherhalf]

mk I too have told my H that he is no longer to be in our house when I am not home. So now when we leave we are sure to lock the deadbolt which H does not have a key.

I really hate it that I made that call. But know that I have to stick to it. Also I know that he is not here at all when I am not and that is comforting.

H is still auto depositing so he pays for this house. But I had to draw the line somewhere. As he started to take things when I was gone. (Just a couple and they were his)Then with the threat of D so real I knew that with the doors locked he will have to ask me for any important info.

When I first told him he was p***ed. Then seem to be okay. Then one night when he had a drunken fit he told me he wanted me out of his f***ing house and off his property. He apologized the next day and that was the last of it.

I know that he hates it, but he also knows he made his bed. I hate having to keep him out when it's just as much his home as mine. But I did not do this...