hey, I think you did fine on the convo. Note that it didn't end with you going your seperate ways to your bedrooms or something, you ended up having a decent rest of the evening.
Remember, this whole sharing your feelings is new for you, so it may be working in your favor. So don't be too hard on yourself. Would you have normally spoken to your H like that in the past? If not, then I think it was good. You were honest about your feelings, you didn't get enraged and started accusing or blaming. Now just remember don't do that all the time. keep those R talks few and far between for the most part.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."