Who knows what is just around the corner? Success is sometimes hiding right around the corner but we may never know unless we prevail. I guess you have to look at the big picture now. Can you keep on DBing? Do you have a choice? All the hard work you have done is not for nothing. You are already a better person for DBing.
I am sorry there has been a cycle of absent dads in your H's life. It is also generational for my family. How I wish I could end that cycle with my son. I want to raise a boy who will be a great father which means a great H first! I think we can but not having a man around can be very draining.
I think what Neph said was SPOT ON! She has such amazing insight and intuition.
Re: Tenth. My D6 suggested we spend that day celebrating, playing wedding at the winery again. No. I wanted it to be just a regular day where no one said anything about it. Sorry. That is just me. Maybe you feel differently.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
