I never contacted anyone about your loan. I don't know where you live, who your loan is with, or even your husband's name. I have no idea who might have tried to contact them, but it was not me.
I don't think contacting OW will be productive. It will just make her feel more powerful if you show her that you feel threatened by her.
I'm glad your husband straightened out the house business, and I hope that he will continue to keep a roof over your head.
