MPO, for what's it's worth, is that you sit back & watch & wait & see what H does. I definitely don't think you should call the OW. He needs to do that on his own and in his own time.
If he truly wants to come home and work on your M, he needs to get to that point on his own. I think you should back off on any R talks, what he is thinking/doing, etc. He may not even really know what he wants to do right now. Being loving & patient is what he needs right now. I know how hard that is, but pushing him into anything or "helping" him to make the "right" decisions isn't going to help your entire sitch. If he's not truly ready, he may come home for a little bit, but then go back. He needs to decide for sure that he wants to come home and then truly be on board w/ you before you 2 can really move forward.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
