RJ, I love hearing from you. I so know the feeling of enjoying the space alone.
Your H may very well be viewing his time as an escape. But he's allowed. And don't even let the fear come into your head about some OW on his biz trip. Easier said than done, I know. It sounds like you're in that mindset most of the time.
A marriage is about two people in a partnership, making it work. It sounds like you and your H work very hard at making your M work. For that, I applaud you!
Thanks for checking in.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track