The house payment was corrected w/ a new loan agreement. The payment went down a little bit. H got a loan from to pay w/ the past due & foreclosure fees.H got really upset when you tried to get information from the mortage company. He changed his address for the bill & gave them a password so no one can get any info.I appreciate you trying to help, thanks.
H is away this weekend. Heres the kicker- we were texting back & forth this morning & I asked the question that I already knew the answer to & really didnt want to hear the truth. I asked him if he went back to her place last night & he said yes. Then in the next sentence he says he wants to be w/ the kids but he has to deal w/ me and not being able to trust him!!! HEllO??Says he shoudlnt of moved back & needs time to adjust. I told him I can learn to trust but he had to do his part.I expalined how I am on a great support website that helped me learn so much.I expalined the comparison of the A w/ a drug addiction & that he had to avoid any contact,not answer calls until he set free to heal. I expalined the stages of withdrawal, anger,depression & grief and that we will go thru all the emotions together. We couldnt talk on the cell b/c he is at a race. I amthinking about telling to stay here at least until the holidays for w/out him will be so hard on the kids. this will also give me time to show him my changes. What do you think?
Another question- should I call the OW & tell her to back off?Ive only talked to her once in the beginning wher she denied anything.. She seems scared to confront.
