Yes, you do need permission. My L told me so. XH knows that too, as he had me sign some kind of note granting him to take the kids away last April. (little did I know that was to the Caribbean when it was supposed to be Florida..and at a hotel, not a cruise)
I have no problem with him taking them but his behavior has reflected that of the time during past restraining orders. He is angry one minute, nice the next. He is texting me harrassing texts and then pulling in the driveway hanging out after he drops the kids off.
To be honest with you, it is making me crazy.
He won't leave me alone, lately.
However, he is trying to get out of his obligatory nights with the kids..MAking his own plans saying he can't take them. Taking all these trips, etc. Then, when he talks about "exchanging" one night for another, refuses to do so as he doesn't want to give me the opportunity to have a "booty call" with New Guy and play house.
YUp, that is what he wrote to me today when I asked for Monday night off in lieu of Wednesday when he is going away.
Then, I have been innundated with texts saying "f you" etc. Out of the blue..
Honestly, I have DONE NOTHING wrong or acted differently to him. I am cordial. I am telling him no big deal if he can't make his weekends with the kids if he has to travel for business.
My T told me he is feeling rejected and wants to punish me.
WTF? He left me!
Now he is trying to get in the middle of my time with New Guy and that is a new one.
Yet, he is taking the rat all over creation in the next few months. And I could give a sh**.
I just want him to leave me alone.
It is taking it's toll on me.
I am tired
Oh, and he took the kids to an open house today to look at houses in this TOWN!
