I was gone for one day, abd I missed so much! Sorry to hear you are having such a hard couple of days. I don't know. I kind of see things differently. I think these are good signs. Difficult and frustrating, but good in the DB sense.
I'm just remembering when you were playing coy w/ the cell at the amusement park and not being fully available for all his invites. He started pusuing you. Now you are being a little more private and putting his coffee pot away, he's starting up again. In DB, the whole point of being vague and somewhat unavailable is to get them curious about what you are doing thereby getting their thought and focus on you. If he is trying to figure out what you are up to, regardless of tactics, he is not focusing on OW. The "Thank you for your concern" thing was perfect too. He expected you to either cave and start talking or get all emotional again and tell him how much it hurts you to connect with him like that (both give him power). By being "late", you were unavailable for him. He said 12-1, not 12-12:30. It would have been considerate to be there at 12, which, no doubt he is used to you being considerate. You must have been doing something really fun or important to not be there waiting. What do you think he was assuming when he pulled into the driveway?
Last time, he pursued you, you gave him what he wanted, then he backed off. Dust yourself off from today. Then keep DBing. You marriage is NOT over til the D is final. He hasn't even filed, even though the money is now there. When he comes looking for another romp on the bedroom, tease him a little more. Don't give in. Make him really want you.
No more frumpy trolls. Morgan is one hot momma!
The apology is a big plus too.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
