OW is like the big old elephant in the room sometimes, huh? We all know that the OP is not the only problem we have with our spouses, but they sure aren't making things better. I still have the urge to bring it up every single day. Some just to learn more about the relationship, and some just to get a good dig in.
Sorry that you are cranky, that's understandable. Hey, you make 40 look hot!!!
