Could OW be cooling to your H? Or maybe she isn't quite worshiping him enough anymore? Maybe she is putting pressure on him - that's what OW did to my H and that's one of the things that drove him to tell me about the A.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength