So many people on these boards have thought that and the at the eleventh hour have ended up in piecing. It's taken the detachment and GALing involved when one actually believes that a D is going to happen to make things work . It also polarises the WAS's feelings.
I am so sorry for your H's behaviour.
(((((HUGS)))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength