Latest convo: M: I can't do this anymore. I can't go on sharing you with another woman H: I know. I can't do this either. I can't go without love and affection and my biggest problem is that it took this situation to make you change. I know you will go back to being who you were before and complacent about giving me attention. M: You always want to blame me but it takes two to get to this place and I'm not going back to that person whether I'm with you or someone else. I'm just not. H: I know I am to blame, too and I am disgusted with myself for what I have done. M: I am so sad that it has to end this way. You have someone to go to but I have no one. H: That's a messed up situation (w/ow) in itself. M: (Silent sobbing) H: I am having such a hard time dealing with the inevitable end of our marriage. I am so sad for all of us. We can talk more about it (the D) later.
Bottom line is.. I do believe I'm heading for divorce court. It's like when he's pressured, he's certain D is the answer. Otherwise, everything is great and wonderful just as it...