I don't want to leave. If you read some of my other posts especially the one to littlebitlost you will see I have said the exact same thing to many WAS that have posted here.
Your problems don't go away when you go away. You actually make all of the old ones and all of the new ones worse.
Let me just say that I have done those things. What I have been told is that my timing was off. Or she did not want it now. Or to little to late. Again let me point out I am a slow learner. Stubborn comes to mind. The IMOE name confused me a bit I like Immy better.
It is really hard to be in the same house and not have your situation be right on top. It is nearly impossible to get away from it. The many things I have tried just never seem to do it. I don't want to be pushy or controlling but I also don't want to be gone all the time. I am working on the happy medium. Hopefully I will get there with my sanity intact.
You can read into my posts all you want. You see it the way you see it. I will point out if I think you are wrong. I value any and all input. If I did not I would not spend the time posting back. I am blunt but not mean. Let me give you something to think about.
Another random thought from Forrest Gump.
If you were walking down the street and some person said to you "Your Fat" you would likely respond in a manner that let that person understand you did not appreciate it. They would know their comment was not welcome. Within a certian time frame you would forget that person ever said it. If a friend or a spouse said the same thing you would likely hold it close and not respond at all. That comment now becomes a source of resentment. In most cases that would turn into some anger you may even fight about it. Which solution is better? Or if you have a solution that is better point it out.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
