D-Busted Now Back Here - 3 Month Update

[mkultra]

I guess I am biased because we have almost the same schedule but it works well for me and so far it works well for my H. I ask him for an adjustment if he needs one. I guess he misses nighttime activities but my kids still sleep at Mom's. My neighbor has the same schedule except for a weekend overnight every other week.


Re Yearly switching: It would be nice to see some research on what works best. I am part of a university parenting advice board and many claim that the best is for the kids to stay in one household and the parents move back and forth! I know people who have done this for almost two years! Can you imagine being that together and organized to share a house but to not be married. I am sorry but if you arethat amicable to share a family home, why not become a family!!!

I think the yearly switching was very bad for my exboyfriend. He grew up going back and forth between parents home. But he had to change schools and his brother got switched conversely so that the parents had a different kid each year. Not good.