Sara....thank you. I know I should have had the confrontation earlier, but I also know that I just wasn't ready for it. I don't think I could have handled myself in the same manner.
Yes, H has been okay the past few days. I had told H that I'd call him when we left on Friday. We were just pulling away from D3's school on our way out of town on Friday and H called us. He said....I just called to make sure you knew I forgot to pack D3 something to eat and to ask you if you'd stop and get her something to eat. Like I wouldn't know any better?? It was an odd conversation.
I'm a bit anxious to see how things go this week and how he is when we get back.
I know that they're likely still in contact, but I'm hoping so much that he's told her that I know about it, as I asked him to. I'm hoping that the two confrontations have kind of slapped him back into reality. I know I shouldn't have, but I did look at his phone Friday morning. All calls to/from OW had been erased......well, except for one that was very old. She was still in his contacts though. I just hope I didn't push this to be more secretive. I mean really, the phone bill will show me!
Well, my sister just pulled in. I need to spend some more time with her before I leave.
See you all later.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day