At one time I was getting in to trouble as a result of what the children were telling my ex. I taked to the children and explained that I was a private person and would appreciate if they didn't talk to anyone about my/our private matters. the children didn't understand what private matters were and so I explained it to them. My problems continued and I received a lot of correspondance. I knew that it was my son who was telling and admittedly my ex was twisting. Eventually I showed my son the correspondance. He understood and stopped. I've never looked back.
