Despite having blocked the e-card notifications from being delivered to our old joint address, one came through last night from my partner to the OP for the OP's b-day today. I couldn't help looking, then wished I hadn't. I quote: "Dear OP: I made a promise to you almost a month ago and I am grateful to say I was able to deliver. You are truly special and have managed to capture me, heart and soul. Thank you for renewing my faith. Love, (my partner), XOXOXO". I'm still shaking. I know I keep asking stupid questions, but what does this mean? The promise she made to the OP occurred the same day she left our home to go to the OP's home. Is this all part of the infatuation thing? They have been "together" 4 weeks. Is this typical behaviour for someone who has cheated and left? She seems to really have fallen for this person. But 4 weeks? What kind of person promises someone something whenn they've left their partner just moments before? And what type of person puts any store in such a promise? And renewed her faith? My working like a maniac for our relationship and for her business showed her no faith? When does the lightbulb go on for her? I have blocked the notifications once more, so hopefully no more will filter through, because I can't help myself but to read them. But to read what she said is killing my soul. Again, how much store should I put in this, and how many of you have seen the same things said and had your spouse have a change of heart? I know I have to get on with me and my life, but if I knew all was not lost, maybe I could be stronger. Unless all hope is lost.
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
