EM - What hope you give me! I just read this thread. Your situation is almost a mirror of mine only husband is out of house and we have three kids. Works with OW every day - she's his second in command. He's been coming around more and talking more. We had a great dinner together more than a month ago but no more relationship talk since then. He may consider counceling, not sure. So, how did you convince him to go to the weekend??? My husband has also said he does not feel safe sharing with me. I've been trying SO hard to change my approach. Completely backed off and become caring, kind friend.
Me: 41 H: 50 M: 15 years S14-D12-D10 S: 05/07 Back home: 08/08 EA: 4 yrs