Wow Bryan - I am really not sure what she wants either. Maybe by trying to force the D issue she is testing you. It seems like she is really sending you mixed signals on this one. I can see the issue with the 2 years apart but it may not be two years if things turn around. She could get a new job and join you in San Antonio, Right?
I think pushing the date back was a very good sign. It means she is not really ready to end it herself and maybe she just wants some more time to see if you are truly sincere. I hate to say this since I do not follow this advice myself but hang in there and be patient.
Are you doing the REtrouvaille weekend still? If so, from what I hear hopefully that will really turn things around for you two and answer some of the questions you have from these mixed signals.
