I am sorry to hear about so much loss for you. Your love for others is evident, even through so much loss. We have been so fortunate; but my brother and I also realize that our parents are aging. My S's accident has brought us all closer.
My sister lives with my parents. She is handicapped with cerebral palsy and uncontrolled seizures. My mother has a 'nasty' critical streak, but has a heart of gold. puzzling. Visiting can sometimes be a battle but I go in with good intentions regardless. My dad is fun and supportive and loving. He understands her and why she is the way she is. Low self esteem from a difficult family life growing up. She tends to gossip and is critical of others. She gets frustrated and nasty with me when I don't listen or participate with her.
