Just found out that OW has a kid!!

[Ophelia]

Any ideas of how I could re-word it BI, (or anyone else)? I can't sit on it for very long, because there are only 3 days until H can file for D, (we have to have been separated for 12 months), and for all I know he's already told his L to go ahead with it as soon as they're able to. So I have to send this within the next 3 days. There's no way I can contest a D if he wants to get one, which is why I want to get my request in before he has the chance to file.