Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

One thing (don't kill me) is I think you need to stop offering to do things with him, stop being available to him in that way.

lwb.....no plans of violence here for anything you say!! I know what you mean about not being available for him. The reason I offered that is because he was supposed to have a friend come up for the weekend and go to the concert with him. We've had an almost impossible time being able to go to concerts together because of no babysitter. We used to go together to EVERYTHING. He was just explaining to someone a few weeks ago that he ALWAYS goes by himself because I can't go or I don't always like the music that he goes to see. I just wanted to offer to try to open up to his interests a little and to finally go with him.

I do plan on trying to get out next weekend for a little while. I think I'll tell him that I'm going to dinner with a friend, but then go see a movie or something. We'll see how that goes! Just to make him think.

Have a good night....

Oh, and I laughed at something you said.......Trust me, my H has no problems letting out bodily noises or scratching himself when I'm around!

SueS