'Passive Speak' in MLC

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Maybe part of the problem is that our spouses were passive and are now realizing that they wasted a lot of time in that mode. So they think they need to make a dramatic change, when what they really needed was to be more active in their lives in general.

I mean, hell, H complained about everything before he moved out. Nothing was quite good enough for the king.

And in a weird way, at least he DID something by leaving instead of complaining constantly about how terrible life was to him. Now when things go bad, it can't be my fault any more.