One of my H's many excuses for leaving was that he was living my life, not his...he wanted more time to play golf, poker and whatever else he wanted to do. But then he complained that I spent too much time doing kid related stuff...wouldn't that give him time to do whatever he wanted to do?
This is what WAS's do to justify their behavior. I guess they can't accept personal responsibility because then they would lose all of their excuses to act they way they do.
