Forrest Gump and his box of choclates.

[immyownenemy]

Ok, I read your book (jk) and I have some ideas here. It's a lot like my own R. Believe it or not!

Are you insecure with your wifes appearance? I think my H is with me. And it drives him batty. What about you? You need to get over that if so, because she married YOU!

Secondly, NO MORE SNOOPING! It's just gonna tear you apart inside. I know because I have done it in the past and it is pure torture. You can't control what she does, you can only control what you do.

Ok, you know now what she needs and wants. Give it to her!

I know right now it might be difficult to do, but keep working on yourself and when you have the opportunity to be with her...don't miss your chance to shine.

When it's appropriate:

Write her short notes on a daily basis. You are caring and loving. She is constantly reminded of your love for her.

Do something for her that she doesn't like doing. Filling the car with gas ALL the time, doing all trash, maybe even laundry!

Schedule her a total spa package including highlights, massage and mani/pedi. If you can't afford this...offer to do the massage yourself!

If you really want to woo her, ask her to dinner and have a dozen roses waiting at the table! Shock her! She will be like melted butter if she is the gift type of person.

If you ever get to the point where you get to share a hotel room or something similiar, have flowers delivered before you arrive so they are waiting there for her. She will be floored!

I know easier said than done now, but I just wanted to get you thinking on the level of someone that likes the gifts (ME)

From reading your post, I truly feel there will come a time that you will be able to woo your W and soon. Don't miss your opportunity!