I agree as well. I dont think I could have done anything to prevent this mess..I did try in the beginning, we did C and H only got worse.. I feel bad for h. He seems a mess to me and I dont know what others think of him..My friends dont say anything bad ,but what can someone think about this..Seems like a lot of people understand this midlife thing as most people have experienced wanting to leave there spouse at one time or another..But the difference is out H really left.. My H pays the bills and take the kids 4x a week..This is where his responsibility ends. and morals..I think they justify the affair and dating even though their still Married, they are seperated(moved out).My H has told a mutual friend Oh "we Split Up" sounds like it was a mutual choice peace
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