Seems you have a good grasp of where you are and are refocusing on what is important to Dave right now.
One comment on the fitness, I try to focus more on goals for what I can do than on the weight. This makes it more fun! I actually am on the other end now, trying to gain some back (muscle vs. fat).
Take care of your self, SD
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