She just tries to bait you, even that phone call today, she HAD to get some sort of dig in even before talking to her own son!!! WOW!!! You have a mess on your hands, but guess what? At the moment she isn't your mess. Let MIL clean her up. I can't believe your MIL is sooo amazingly...what's the word.....two faced, I guess. Probably supporting W's whims, but then denying it to you. Puleeze. Sounds like you didn't let MIL get to you and that's good. Bigger and better people, form lines to the left please. That's you!

Dark Dark Dark and Disneyland Dad. BIG time. Its what we have left after everything is said and done.

I am so sorry. My weekend is boring compared to yours, unless you have kicked in a shower door or two. ;\) HUGS TO YOU

PS: The talks with your older son?? Man, he is taking it to heart and you did your best with him. You are amazing.