VEry interesting about the ED problems that night. Because it sounds like the sex life has dwindled more and more and then some more. To the point it is at now.
Same situation here with my husband. It was awhile back and he had that happen also. Then it happened a couple more times. It doesn't always happen mind you. But it has...and see that is a HUGE problem for a man. The way my husband described it was like that little thought of what if it happens again is like a hUGE elephant that is sitting in the room. My husband actually opened up to me about this. He was almost in tears and so embarrassed talking about it. I can tell you when the doctor had given him samples of viagra he was like a new man. lol He was initiating, he was aggressive, and also even his overall behavior was better.He said all it takes is for this happen to a man once and whenever the thought of sex comes up he is petrified it will hapen again. He said he knows even thinking about it can make it happen but he can't help it. Anyways it was a huge eye opener for me. It was a great conversation for us. I was able to tell him how much I loved him. How I loved making love to him. That it didn' matter to me if it did happen and I certainly didn't think less of him as a man. I told him it must be difficult to be a man and have to have something work. For a woman there is usually only the lubrication problem but then you grab some KY and are ready to go.
Perhaps this could be a huge issue for him. My husband to was turning to MB.
