My divorce was final about one month ago. We were married for 12 years and fought a lot. I would like to give more history if anyone could use it to give better advice.
Divorce proceedings lasted more than one year. All along my wife insisted that there was no one else. I found out today when I stopped by the house and her new boyfriend was working on her (our) house. She couldn't even wait until the divorce was final to hook up with another man. There doesn't seem to be any end to her anger toward me. I never saw another woman during our entire marriage and don't see how she could possibly date right now. That is the last thing that is on my mind.
We have three beautiful, young girls. Do these things ever turn around? I still love her, but after today's events, it seems very difficult to go back to her. Her parents are very bitter and negative and I know they don't care for me and haven't for a long time. I'm sure this doesn't help.
It's been almost 15 months (one month since divorce). Need encouragement and some hope. Seems like it could be years.
