Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

Hi Trying.....

When you say the first time he did this, you mean his first A six years ago, right? No, H didn't see any anger from me the 1st time around. At first it was a lot of hurt. I did throw a gas receipt at him that showed he hadn't been where he said he was, but then I cried. After that I found DR and tried to follow that. I had also gone on AD's and that helped my confidence and slowed the crying.

This time around I did show anger. I didn't yell, but was forceful with my words.

I did call him back just before noon, as he'd asked me to. We talked for a few more minutes. He asked what we were going to do today. I told him I wasn't sure. I casually asked what his plans were for the rest of the day/evening. He said....I'm going to the store for some groceries for us to the week, buying myself some lamb chops (I don't like them, so he doesn't usually buy them), buy some beer and sit my butt on the couch to watch sports & maybe some movies. I said.....So this really is a weekend about just you. He said, yes. He said...okay, well I gotta run, I've got a customer calling. I just said....yeah. He quickly said....Okay, hey, I love you hun, I'll talk to you later. I said....love you too and hung up.

I won't be calling him tonight, as I'd expect he'll think I will. I'll just buzz before we leave tomorrow. It's a common courtesy that we do for each other, especially since I have D3 with me and we're driving 5 1/2 hours.

We had good, no R conversations, so my weekend has gone okay. Plus I've had a great time with my family. I got to see my Grandma today too, so that was nice.

I just hope that he is actually taking this weekend for just him.

Have a good evening.

SueS