Sue,

Did your husband ever see anger from you the first time he did this?

Also I would actually suggest you not calling him so much while there. He can't miss you if he's talking to you so much. *wink* It would just be a great opportunity for you to let him sit and wonder what your doing. That would be a 180 for you I think to not call him as much as you do. If he does then great and try to keep it short. But when you do then to me anyway that is pursuing him.