yep, my H said all kinds if things like many of the people on this thread...
he takes very little responsibility for what has happened...blames me...maybe inside he knows it is his choices have put him where he is---maybe he cannot face that...I have no idea.
I wonder too if there is something I could have done to (1) stop this mess from happening, and/or (2) would it have happened no matter what? I tend to lean towards the there was nothing I could have done---this was probably always going to happen.
I wonder how my story will end and when it will end...I, luckily, have no children with my H therefore, if we should permanently part ways, then at least it WILL be permanent and I will have no need to contact him at all whatsoever.
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
