I have done tree sessions with a DB coach. One of the key things I took from it was not to ask anything if/when you think/know you will not get the positive response you want. So, this comes back to none of this being fair, and those of us here on this sight doing all or most of the work and not getting a lot of rewards at the momnet. Got to hope that the rewards come later when the R gets back on track!
Would love to share my fdetails with you too, 'cause I, too, could use some support. 4 yr old D. wanting me right now, and not wanting to bust in on your thread with my prob. if that's the wrong thing to do? I'm pretty new here, too; so I haven't got this all figured out yet.
Biggest thing I know is to just keep doing it... And if you screw up (and, God, do I hate myself when I do- but you just have to forgive yourself. This is hard and noone is perfect!!) just get over it and move on. Apologixe if you can got to run. M10 yrs (anniversary would be next week, and I am SO dreading that!! M 39 H 38 S 16 D 4 H's EA/PA summer '07 immediate separation 8/07
