what is the ow thinking??

[Hope_11]

I'm really sorry Olive. I understand all the frustration.

What do I want Hope?? I want this SH!T to be over!!! This marriage is a friggin' joke..

We all do, but when it's over it's over and there is no turning back. I wish I could come over there and smack your H around and tell him to wake up...he can't have a wife and a mistress. His wife loves him and stood by him through all of this when all your mistress is doing is causing problems...a blind person could see which way to go.

If he is on the D bandwagon, is he willing to start the process? I just don't understand your H. Most other H's on here in some way shape or form seem to be for the D because that is the only way that they think that they can get out of this. Your H seems to think that he can just continue to live like this. Another month's gone by and I'm not seeing any changes. What are you planning to do in the next few weeks? It seems like you need a plan or you are going to keep on like this because he obviously doesn't have a problem.