There's a time for everything. If you get to need to date again then you will be ready when you need to be.
The thought of being with someone else really scared me. That's one of the things I couldn't get over with my H - although I love him and think he's good looking etc he could sure do with losing some weight. When I see him I am sure I see the man I fell in love with when he was 20. Young slim extremely attractive. Size 28" waist. Now I have managed to lose a lot of the weight I put on from child bearing. It took a while. Things might not be as taut as they could be but they aren't too fat. I wouldn't get undressed in front of a new man!!!! Jeeze - I would have to be out of my head on booze or something to get the courage up!! God knows how he did. LOL (the phrase 'jelly on a plate' came to mind when I though about my H and OW).
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
