I think it is good that you Act As If but remember to also think like a Beginner. When you offer to do something with him, will it seem as though you are pursuing him? If that turns him off then cut him off short. Otherwise, I see nothing worng with giving him the benefit of the doubt. I dunno. He sounds like he is being apathetic as a weapon. My H did that too. Cordial to apathy. Now looking back I see he was cordial to see the kids and apathetic to avoid the guilt of his affair. He was never nice because he actually enjoyed my company. After a while, he just demonized me. I think you H actually enjoys your company or else why woud he invite you places and check in on you and kind of pursue you. He is just confused like a teenager. remember that? You can make it easy on him by letting him pursue you. Make him jealous. yes, stupid game but it WORKS!
Last edited by mkultra; 09/29/0707:42 PM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
