The Good, the Bad, and the Funny 4

[mkultra]

LOL! I thought if I peeked or snooped at the Piecing Forum it would give me insight into what it looks like when the WS actually walks back through the door. It is so funny how this Infidelity 101 education has shown me that my sitch is just classic, typical! Some of the themes I noticed from Piecing is the element of surprise. That the WS just will show up with no forwarning and quietly try to come back into the primary R.

MY DAD DID this over and over.

Another thing I noticed is the presence of the OP! Oh my goodness. Some WS come home but cannot get over their OP! Yikes. I cannot imagine but Michele warns of that addiction. So it is like taking back someone on heroine and we are just a methadone clinic, but they want to go out and get the real stuff and it will take evreyting in their power to not to want it. But they are already weak and so are we. hell. That would be hell.

I guess that is why we need to think about words like: patience, love, forgiveness, family, time, longevity.