If I try, he might try

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I've been dbing for months and about five weeks ago - on advice of great solution-oriented therapist - I asked him to dinner and suggested he move back home. He just cried and said he's so messed up. Then I suggested that we go to counceling. He suggested I go back again and let him know how it goes. I did go back but therapist said - based on what happened, that I say no more but simply leave the therapy information around where he can find it and keep treating him with kindness and warmth. I've done all this and we've had NO meaninful conversation since the dinner. Just small talk, happy talk or an occasional anger burst from him if he gets frustrated about something like kids, etc. Should I actually bring up the therapy or just wait??